Is there a membership?
Some clubs do not require membership!! Hedonism is a private club and by law requires membership. There is security and control to insure appropriate and compatible adults are the only people in the club.
What sort of people are in the lifestyle?
Average people such as yourself. Membership is nondiscriminating as to age, color, creed, social class, education or income. Primarily in the socio-economic middle to upper class. Members are mature, happy, and exploring people with a zest for living and a curiosity of life who on the average enjoy successful relationships and are generally successful in both their social and business lives.
Contrary to popular belief couples do not become involved with swinging out of boredom but out of a sense of adventure. Basically couples who already enjoy a good relationship and want to add another dimension to the relationship. It is a shared experience that appeals to their sexual and emotional needs and fantasies and their desire to explore them together rather than apart. Couples with trouble in their relationship are cautioned not to become involved in the lifestyle. Emotional and sexual growth is often an added benefit.
What's in swinging for singles?
Essentially for the same benefits that couples are involved. For the swinging single female there is a discovery that it is more honest and leads to better relationships than the ordinary single bar scene. For the single man the opportunity to deal with couples and single ladies in an honest and sensual manner not afforded them in any other
Should everyone swing?
With much to recommend the lifestyle, like so many other things, it is not for everyone. If swinging poses a threat to either part of a couple, becoming involved would not be pleasurable not advised. If it is of interest to you, and you feel able to handle it, explore swinging and the experience.
Is the lifestyle all the fun that I have heard it is?
You bet it is! It is every bit as erotic, exciting, and fulfilling as you imagine it to be! You can explore your favorite fantasies securely! You can engage in private intimate sexual activity, share your mate with another in a threesome,
enjoy another couple, or engage in the famous group swinging, all in one evening!
Can our relationship be damaged at a swingers club?
Relationships, reportedly have generally been improved with swinging. It is a shared activity that promotes understanding, intimacy and communications. Swinging can remove inhibitions imposed by society, breaks up the "routine" and removes the need of role playing. Encourages honesty between couples.
Do we have to join any activities?
No, of course not. You are free to experience your own erotic adventure without getting other people into it. Many are just looking for a little extra excitement to spice up their own relationship. Some members are active in the lifestyle, some are exhibitionists, others are
voyeurs', some are into fetish wear. Yet all share one thing in common, they all are open minded & fun-loving people.
What kind of music do you play?
We have a live D.J. that plays the best latest sounds in today's music.
Is there a dress code for the club?
Generally speaking, for men is a pair of dress slacks and a sport shirt while ladies come dressed in sexy, sensuous outfits. Many members look for the theme that evening and dress accordingly. The main thing to stress is to
dress for yourself, be comfortable.
No sloppy attire!!
What's the average age?
While age is not an issue, most of our members range from the late 20's to the late 40's and early 50's. Some are younger and some are older, the bulk is in their 30's and 40's.
Are our names ever given out?
No, your name, address and phone number are personal and kept confidential! We never give them out to other members without first getting your permission.
What's the best night for us?
That depends on your wish, we are open Friday for couples & singles, Saturday for couples and single ladies only.
What if we meet an
If this happens, it will be a surprise for both parties. Greeting each other is the best thing to do and most of these meetings will result in a better relationship with
Can a woman ask another woman to dance?
Sure, a lot of women that come to the club feel attracted to other women. And when the feeling is mutual it might end up in an exciting erotic experience.
We are very shy but want to meet other couples?
As a group, members are friendly outgoing people, but it's a two-way street. You should introduce yourself to the others. If you are unusually shy, or if the group appears cliquish, ask your host to make some introductions for you.
That's why we are here!
Can we be up front about our sexual desires?
It is essential that everyone knows up-front what they are getting into, and Avoid an embarrassing situation later on.
Don't allow yourself to be forced into an uncomfortable situation! You should never feel pressured into doing anything you don't want to. You are here to have fun, being coerced is "not fun". So if anyone persists, please inform the management.
Respect other peoples right to privacy and be discreet.
What you see, or what you hear and where you saw it, is all privileged Information.
Don't abuse it!